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"But will they have sex... or?" - Choices for Conception

"But how do the people have children if they want to be platonic co-parents? Will they.... have sex or?" - That is a common question a lot of people unfamiliar with dynamics of platonic co-parenting have - and also a question every single prospective co-parent will face at some point during their journey.

The decision-making process around conception - a topic that bridges the realms of personal choice, medical technology, and societal norms - is very important for a successful co-parenting experience.

The most traditional method involves sexual intercourse, a natural way that some prefer as its "known" and lack of medical intervention. This approach, while straightforward, might not be suitable for all co-parenting arrangements, especially those that adhere more strictly to platonic boundaries or involve individuals of incompatible sexual orientations.

For those seeking alternative routes, assisted reproductive technologies (ART) like In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) and home insemination kits have become increasingly accessible. IVF, known for its higher success rates, especially in individuals over 30, stands out as a fast and effective option. However, its high costs and varying coverage by healthcare systems across countries can be prohibitive for many. Moreover, the process of IVF can be physically and emotionally demanding, leading some to explore less invasive options first.

Home insemination kits represent a middle ground, offering a more intimate and less costly alternative to IVF. These kits allow for the artificial insemination process to occur in the comfort of one's home, providing a semblance of the natural conception process without the need for sexual intercourse. This method can be particularly appealing for co-parents who value the personal aspect of conception but wish to maintain clear boundaries in their relationship.

At, we understand that the journey to parenthood is deeply personal and filled with significant choices. Our platform is designed to support prospective co-parents through every step of their journey, from finding a compatible co-parent to navigating the complex decisions around conception. We provide resources, expert advice, and a supportive community to empower our users to make informed decisions that align with their values, circumstances, and parenting goals.

Ultimately, the choice between sexual intercourse, home insemination, and IVF is a deeply personal one, influenced by factors such as financial resources, personal values, and medical considerations. Whatever path our users choose, is committed to providing a supportive and informative environment to help them navigate the exciting journey to parenthood.


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